Complaints...

Have you noticed how many times a day we complain?

you, me, someone else...

And what does that mean?...

What is complaining?

Not being happy?

be angry?

uncomfortable?

What are we really feeling when we complain?

Now that I've been observing it more clearly, there's always someone complaining about something. A blow, an experience, something that brings us to that tone of something not quite right.

Is it bad to complain?

clearly not,

It is just the manifestation of something we feel.

Let whatever wants to come out, come out.

The question is that,

What are you really complaining about?

How many times a day do you hear a complaint?

yours or someone else's.The problem is not the complaint, but the what, how and how much.

Observing those who complain about even the smallest thing in person, I realize that what exists inside is a great need for control, which transforms into frustration at not being able to have it.

It's this dissatisfaction with whatever is happening that makes us sound bitter or makes the listener uncomfortable.Because yes, it's uncomfortable to hear someone complain, to express their annoyance or discomfort.

Even more so to hear someone who complains most of the time about life, the world, society, the weather, the group, others, work, whatever they're facing.

Complaining is a part of life.

We don't always agree with how life and everything it entails unfolds.

So is being able to recognize that complaint and do something about it.

How different is someone who complains and seeks a solution so that the "problem" stops happening, from someone who complains and continues in the same place they complain about.

We call one Positivist and the other Negativist; the difference?

The responsibility that exists within. When we are responsible for our individuality, sovereign over our being, the complaint transforms into action motivated by the awareness of our capacity to transform reality and, consequently, how we feel.

Being positive doesn't mean not complaining; it means turning complaining into something that leads to personal development and growth. That is, perpetuating the state of internal satisfaction that ultimately leads us to feel happy, alive, loved, proud, free, etc.

Or, more concretely, to the simple act of action: mobilizing ourselves.

Negative people are those who complain and, despite this, remain where they are, perpetuating the complaint throughout their lives. That is, those whose complaint turns into passivity.

If you want to complain, complain all you want, it's your right.Complain, get angry, get irritated, but do something about it, and let the consequences lead you to where you really want to be.

The important thing about this equation is,

What are you going to do with that?

Continue complaining every day of your life?

or thank for each one of them?

I complain, and I've also spent a lot of time complaining about something/someone for a long time in my life. Why? Because of the fear of letting go. And the arrogance of believing it can be the way I want it. Control, dominate the situation.

The complaint is "I don't like something here, I don't like it," it's a limit that we are not capable of setting for ourselves.

The fear of letting go or leaving is so great that we prefer to continue complaining, sometimes for a lifetime.

Sometimes it's someone, other times it's something, and many times it's parts of ourselves, all waiting to be released so we can feel free again.

That fear of emptiness, of the unknown, of change.

Or maybe it's not even fear,

It is already a habit, it is neurology,

is rigidity,

It is human pride.

It's not the why that matters, but rather the what for.

Why do we complain?To move forward?

or to continue where you are?

I complain to move forward

You?